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Now another article on our psychologists on "Why, sometimes love is so hard?"
Who is thy true half where it is found, where it is, after all, in general, and the person with whom you meet now, it accurately or is your half? These are questions often revolve at all in my head, and it happens that no day is complete without these issues. We all know how after the first, floral, romantic and enthusiastic meaningful period coming week, when the relationship becomes habitual and stable when falling from the eyes of the first shroud, and that's when it comes to the most risky period of joint relations.
Why is love so hard? The fact that human relations are unique in that you're dealing with something clear and complete. Your companion is not a commodity that can be bought in a store or choose a dating site. That you choose, of course, you can, but your chosen their lives, their habits and preferences, their weaknesses and shortcomings, advantages and its own uniqueness, sparkle.
Starting a new relationship, all we expect continuous bliss and pleasure, expect that find ourselves in heaven of happiness, here it is, our right choice, which finally end all the difficulties and come, finally, the long-awaited period of bliss. Yes, love, this time wearing pink glasses, which over time, will inevitably have to take off, it is impossible to idealize your chosen indefinitely, because it is not so that you come up with it and imagined. It has hoo both have dig, and even lived with him side by side for years, and can not reveal the man to the end.
So what to do, do all our dreams do not come true? After all, we both wanted this very large and bright, happy and absolutely huge, all-conquering love? We do expect that our lives will get the same excellent flavor and light?
All it is, you'll see, everything will be even better. Truth. Just a few tips should take note, and everything will be in order. So, let us love as through rose-colored glasses, really.
- We need to try to see a partner a real person, not invented by you or created by your imagination. After all, you and anyone who wants to be loved as he is. So take your companion as it is, because when you see it in this hidden flaws appear before you and its hidden advantages. And you are not invented, but very real.
- Take care of your relationship, do not let them become boring, do not seek conflicts, try to bring them something easy and interesting, do not create problems and create comfort, interest, excitement, in general, everything that you like now, moment.
- Understand that your companion desires are the same as yours, it has as many rights, it is also certainly wants something and wants very much. So let him, and he, in turn, shall respect your wish, because relations are harmonious with both sides.
- Do not be unhappy, no one understood the man, grim and disappointed. With such a partner enjoy life did not get.
- Examine their shortcomings, and if you see that something comes to you from the dark side of your soul, stop immediately. Your weaknesses if they did not manage to destroy any relationship with the most ideal partner. And you lose a lot. Teach yourself just as you are learning a loved one.
- Talk about your desire about what you want, what is important to you, you want your half done, do not expect your partner to guess unthinkable way that you need. Point and boldly say, everyone should know about your desire, then perhaps part of what your dream will certainly come true.
- Do not wait for the light of love, fairy tales leave the threshold to have fun and build happiness in my life at the moment and forever, have to try, but it's worth a prize in the form of common happiness of your beloved is so.